Half term madness

Is there anything more horrendous than a text from the school saying there is now an inset day Monday? Luckily I’m off work or I would be slightly screwed!

I love February half term! It signals the end of winter and means me and little one get to spend some proper quality time together after the madness that was Christmas and new year. One thing I’ve found an issue this year is money, or rather my lack of it. Luckily I’m resourceful so we’ve got a trip to the RSPCA planned, the beach is 5 minutes away and who doesn’t love a baking day?? Terribly excited about this week and means I’m going to have a bit of time to research where I might like to live in Devon (or maybe Somerset).

Everything is plodding along nicely on the man front, loving the snapchat & am fully embracing sexting. Have a few men I’m chatting to but no one super special (apart from the sub guy in my previous post – going for coffee next week). Going to get back on the horse (or in this case men) next week but for now I’m just enjoying focusing on me & having a bit of a flirt.

The ex is still a wanker as well- just thought id slip that in (lets face it seeing your child 3 hours a week isn’t parenting!)

 

 

 

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No German sausage for me

Being the fabulous mother I am I have abandoned the child at school (and to the care of my mother) for the weekend to go on holiday with the Essex half of my family (they are exactly what you imagine). So I fly out to Germany tomorrow and will hopefully be sat next to some sexy man (probably not knowing my luck!) and wont freeze my ass off while over there. Period week for me so cant have any sexy German men which is a major downside but get away from all my life drama which is lovely, your allowed to drink at 10am when your on holiday right?? Side note were going for a 60th birthday – any good ideas for last minute presents?

I’ve also finally decided to take the plunge and move away, will be lovely to have a fresh start with my little one. Its both exciting and terrifying but I’m tiered of putting my life on hold for one reason or another, so gonna go somewhere new and kick ass!

 

 

Cheating, sex & children

So…… I haven’t posted in a while and LOTS has happened. Me and the ex got back together (yuk!) and I found out (through Facebook) of course that he was cheating on me (last week). Logically I dumped all his stuff at his mums (she was thrilled as you can imagine) and told him to have a good life with this new girl (who had a fiancée- split them up pretty quickly). So its been over a week now and he doesn’t seem bothered with seeing our son, saying that our son doesn’t seem to bothered with seeing him. He’s also paying maintained (a whole £20 a week- laughable) but hey that’s all over and done with. Met a lovely army lad on tinder (love tinder, its fab!) and brought him back to my place and f**ked his brains out (told him before hand he’s not to mention my wobbly bits) – made me feel much better about everything to be honest, I’m over the shock now. Onwards and upwards for me.

New years resolution for me is to do all three army, navy & RAF. Will add a marine in there if I can find one. After being with the same bloke since I was 15 (am 23 now) I am ready to explore and enjoy being single! 1/3 down after last weekend! Was the nicest army lad!

I was so frightened to be alone and just live alone without anyone there but god its bloody lovely & all the girls have rallied round and cheered me on (Girl power!)

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Sexy army lad (yes I made him take a selfie so I could send it to the girls!)